FREQUENTLY ASKED

QUESTIONS

  • All new friends are required to complete my screening process, which includes:

    • A photo of you holding your ID*

    • A 15-min screening phone call

    • Screening fee / deposit

    *If you are unable to provide ID, please provide proof of employment via LinkedIn, work ID or your company website, AND the website of two independent providers that you have seen in the last year.

  • Discretion is my top priority - for both of us. I take the privacy of my clients very seriously.

    Any personal info you share with me is confidential, and will only be used by me for the purposes of my safety screening protocol.

    I will delete the information you share immediately after screening is completed.

  • Yes. Deposits are required for all bookings. I accept Venmo or Cashapp for deposits. I do not accept gift cards. 

    For new friends, I require a $100 screening fee that also serves as a deposit for our first date.

    This shows me that you are serious about booking and you value my time, as I do require a 15-min introduction phone call as part of my screening process. That $100 non-refundable fee is credited towards our first session together.

    An additional deposit is expected for sessions that require me to travel outside of Santa Cruz (to cover my transportation costs and in-call rental fees).

    For established friends, I require a new deposit each time you wish to book a date with me.

    If the date is longer than 4 hours, I require a 50% deposit to block my calendar and secure our time together.

  • If we're meeting in private, please tuck your gift into an unsealed envelope with my name written on it and place it in a clearly visible place, like a counter, and then excuse yourself to the restroom.

    If we’re meeting in public, tuck the donation into a book, card, or gift bag and present it to me as a gift.

    Additional gifts are not expected but always appreciated. I love to receive candles, crystals, flowers, lingerie, fresh fruit, and jewelry.

  • Video call donations are nonrefundable.

    If you cancel within 48 hours of our in-person date, your deposit will be considered a cancellation gift.

    For cancellations within 12 hours of our in-person date, 100% of your donation is requested, as a gesture of respect for my time.

    I do not make exceptions to this policy.

  • No, not for our first date. When meeting new friends, I feel most comfortable in my own familiar territory until ample trust is established. Therefore, I don’t accept outcall requests for new friends.

    I take pride in being a gracious hostess and I put a lot of effort into curating a warm environment that makes a lasting first impression.

    I look forward to hosting you at one of my safe and discreet in-call spaces in Santa Cruz, SF, South Bay or East Bay.

    Established suitors (IRL and virtual) are welcome to make outcall requests.

    • Santa Cruz

    • Palo Alto / South Bay

    • Oakland / East Bay

    • San Francisco

    I do not currently accept FMTY requests, but you are always welcome to visit me in the Bay Area!

  • I am available in the afternoons and evenings (2pm-midnight). Advance bookings with ample time for planning are appreciated.

    Same day appointments are never guaranteed but it doesn’t hurt to try! Especially if you’re already an established suitor.

    For new friends, please be ready to complete my screening requirements immediately if you are inquiring about a same day appointment.

    I am based in Santa Cruz County so I prefer at least 24 hours notice for session requests for SF, East Bay, or South Bay. But if you catch me when I’m already doing business over the hill, I may be able to accommodate a same day request. So it never hurts to reach out and ask!

  • Rarely. You would need to make me a very enticing offer to convince me to skip my strict morning routine to see you.

    At my fundamental core, I am not a morning person. I need to ease into my day and unfurl my petals slowly like a delicately aroused flower.

    I am physically and emotionally at my best in the afternoon and evening. My sensual vortex is at its most voracious peak between 6pm-11pm.

    You’ll get the best of me if you make the effort to see me in the afternoon or evening.

    But perhaps the adrenaline rush of a very generous offer would wake me up enough to accommodate your morning request ;)

  • Wellness and self-care are my top hobbies.

    My day starts with a hot cup of bone broth, an hour of yoga and strength training, another hour of sweating in the sauna, and if I have the time, I’ll sneak in a sports massage or a meditative seaside hike.

    I don’t drink alcohol, smoke, or eat gluten, but I do love indulging in magic mushrooms, orgies, dance parties, meats, and fine cheeses. 

    Let’s debate the benefits of keto vs paleo vs vegetarian diets. Cook dinner naked together. Ramble about whether cold plunging is a bullshit fad or the key to aging backwards. Muse about the latest research on ketamine’s use in treating clinical depression. Swap advice on supplements.